A lot of friends said that they'd wish they had the same confidence and wisdom when they were in their twenties. Who doesn't... including me!! (just to be clear w/ you, we are talking about women/moms in their 30s here!! Well, same thing apply to when you are 40s, 50s... ^O^) The truth is you can THINK your way back and feel/look younger 10 years even when you can't turn back time. What will you do differently when you have your first child in your early twenties? You probably are reluctant be so settled that you still want to have fun. Enjoy yourself and b e adventurous!! Go scuba-diving, sky-diving, try new sports, visit different countries, or learn cooking and knitting just to be prepared prior to be a stay-home-mom or wife. ^^ I am sure there are lots of things you want to try when you are in your twenties but you didn't. Now you can think positively and constructively for yourself and why not do it NOW . ...
Love, Feel, and Carry on.